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Perimenopause and menopause · Night waking

Waking up at 3am in perimenopause or menopause?

You wake with a jolt. You're hot, wide awake, and within seconds your mind is running through tomorrow, last week and everything in between. Back to Sleep is short and very easy to follow, because at 3am nobody wants to concentrate.

Back to Sleep

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  • 19 minutes
  • Bedtime and night waking
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Is this you?

You're far from alone

  • Waking in the small hours, hot and wide awake
  • A mind that starts on the to-do list the second you wake
  • Getting cross with yourself for not being asleep

These are some of the most common things women tell us about.

Inside the session

What happens

  • No demands at all: you don't need to do anything right
  • Cooling the body, slowly and gently
  • Putting worries on a high shelf until morning, where they'll keep
  • Sinking back down, like a pebble settling through still water
How to use it

A little, often

Keep it ready on your phone by the bed, so you can start it with your eyes half shut. It's short enough to use more than once in a night.

Read more: Why do I keep waking up at 3am? Perimenopause, menopause and night waking

Please note: Softer Mind recordings are for relaxation and wellbeing. They're not medical treatment and don't replace advice from your GP. Never listen while driving or doing anything that needs your full attention. How to listen safely.

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